I think this is the question which should appear after the "Got Milk?" ads. These ads are run by dairy farmers, so of course they are trying to tell you that milk is good for you because they make money if you believe their ads, but it's simply not. Cow's milk was intended for baby cow's. Half of all ear infections are caused by milk or other dairy products. I found this out the hard way and with my mother's instinct, because your doctor is probably the last person who will tell you this.
The day I started Cody on milk (right around 12 months), he got his first ear infection, followed by 3 more over the next four months! We followed the usual route of antibiotics, followed by a different brand of antibiotics, followed by another brand of antibiotics, and so on. His ears would clear up after 2 or 3 weeks, then he'd get another one.
I asked the doctor if it might be caused by milk, since he only started getting ear infections the day I started him on milk. She said of course not and to not even think about taking him off milk - he needed it she said. I reluctantly believed her, but inside of me, I thought it was from the milk.
By the fourth ear infection, I decided not to give the antibiotics despite my doctor's plea that it could spread to his brain and he could die. I'm not kidding. She actually told me this. Instead I took him off milk and gave him rice milk instead. That was the last ear infection he ever had (he's now almost 9) and his ears cleared up without antibiotics. Listen to your "mommy instinct!" That's what God gave you it for.
During this time, I started to look up on the Internet about ear infections and came across some articles on www.mercola.com, which is where I had read that half of all ear infections came from milk. That seemed like an awfully high number and if it were true, why weren't doctors telling us this?! It seemed ludicrous to me. But, personally I believe the medical industry is out to make money.
Now I'm sure most doctors don't perceive it this way, but they are being blindsided by "Big Pharma". I'm all for doctors in the event of an emergency or serious disease, but prescribing antibiotics incessantly without trying to find out what is causing the ailments just doesn't make any sense to me. What about teaching patients a bit about prevention and how to properly take care of yourself so you don't get sick? Or how to get to the root cause of the problem instead of just treating the symptoms until they appear again. But they probably don't teach that in medical school. That's considered wholistic medicine. They don't make money if you just stop drinking milk. They'd lose half their patients according to this study. Most doctors do the bulk of their business by prescribing antibiotics for ear infections and strep, and by giving vaccinations (Don't get me started on that. That will be a separate post, I promise.)
So what can you do if your child does get an ear infection?
Since only about half of all ear infections are caused by milk, your child may get an ear infection even if they don't eat dairy. For ear infections in our house, we use Wally's Ear Oil with great success. It can be found at GNC, Vitamin Shoppe, or your local health food store. It contains tea tree oil, garlic, mullein, echinacea, eucalyptus, etc. It is strong smelling, but put in 1-2 drops, and within minutes, the pain is dissipated and it goes to work killing the bacteria on contact. I've used it myself. For my kids and especially when they are babies, I use it at the first sign of ear ache.
If they are tugging on their ears, I see a lot of wax, or they are getting over or have a cold, I just give it automatically. It usually never persists beyond another day or two. If they stop pulling on their ears, I just give it for another day at night before bed for good measure.
My 2 year old will tell me he wants oil in his ears when his ears are bothering him and he lays right down for us to put it in, so I know it makes his ears feel better, though he rarely gets ear infections. I have used antibiotics for him once only because he had had a febrile seizure. If the infection gets bad and is accompanied by a fever and the child is obviously in a lot of pain, I would give antibiotics, but I've found that if I treat with Wally's Ear Oil at the beginning of an infection, it resolves itself quickly before we even need a doctor's appointment.
If your baby is waking at night crying and won't let you put them down and wants to be held upright, that usually meant an ear infection in our house. I knew the ear oil was working on my babies because they would stop crying within 5-20 minutes and go to sleep for the rest of the night.
If you're not sure if they have an ear infection or not, it doesn't hurt at all to give them the oil. It will actually help pull out any bacteria that may be in there. A couple days after giving the oil, you may see some ear wax. That is just the body's way of getting rid of the bacteria in the ear canal and that's a good sign. Wally's Ear Oil will also kill any yeast in the ears.
If you don't have any Wally's in the house, you could also crush up some fresh garlic and put it in some warm olive oil. I've never tried this, but I've heard this also helps. You can also cover the ear with a warm wash cloth to help soothe the pain. If you do decide to give antibiotics, you can give the oil as well to help with the pain.
I don't believe many children truly need to have tubes put in their ears. I think these doctors don't know what else to do because these antibiotics that they are prescribing just aren't working. And they aren't working because they haven't addressed the real reason for the ear infections, which is in many cases caused by dairy and if you don't eliminate the dairy, you will not eliminate the ear infections.
Yes, kids do get fewer ear infections as they get older because of the length of their tubes or something, but their reaction to dairy also changes as they mature. For Cody, he stopped getting ear infections when we took him off straight milk, but I didn't eliminate all dairy from his diet.
By age 3, he started getting migraines from dairy. I started buying string cheese for him and he loved it (by the way - you're often allergic to whatever you crave the most). One day, he had fried mozzarella cheese sticks for lunch, and 2 or 3 string cheeses that day. He woke up at night screaming bloody murder. Any light hurt his eyes, he felt like throwing up, and his head was hurting him so bad, he was balling.
I called the doctor frantic. I didn't know if he had a tumor or what. I had never heard of a 3 year old getting a migraine. (I've suffered from migraines since I was about 8 as well. I finally linked it to dairy as well.) The doctor had no idea. I explained what he had eaten that day. He continued to eat the string cheese because I had no idea that might be causing his headaches.
Three times within the next month he had migraines. I got his eyes checked and they were fine. I finally took him to a wholistic doctor along with Lynsey, and she thought they were both allergic to dairy. I stopped the string cheese and further limited his dairy, and he stopped getting headaches, except when he had too much dairy.
For Lynsey, she was about 8 months old when we went to the wholistic doctor. She had had goopy watery red eyes ever since she was born pretty much. She also had constant colds from 2 weeks old on. Her face was often red and splotchy and she would get rashes all over her body sometimes or her face. I finally linked the rashes to our laundry detergent (we have to use 1/4 the amount of Tide Free or Seventh Generation, with some Borax to remove any residues). The red watery eyes were from dairy.
I stopped her formula and strictly breastfed and her eyes suddenly improved. Her constant colds also dissipated. If she ate dairy, her eyes would start to water and her nose would start to run every time. She could handle (or so we thought) small amounts, but if she ate macaroni and cheese, we could expect a runny nose. Today, we eliminate all dairy for her.
If you do choose to eliminate milk for your child, don't switch to soy milk! Half of all kids who are allergic to milk will be allergic to soy. Soy is also a hormone disruptor. Kids who were given soy formula as infants reach puberty at a much younger age. Were seeing girls hit puberty as young as 9 years old now. Some of those hormones are also getting into our kids through the meat they eat. If your children can handle milk, I would suggest at least buying Oberweis milk or organic to avoid the hormones and antibiotics from regular milk. Oberweis is basically organic, but can't get that label from the government for certain reasons. We use Pacific Rice Milk from the organic aisle at Woodman's. They also have Vanilla flavored. Soy also often causes aggressiveness, hyperactivity, and moodiness to name a few. It certainly does in my kids.
Dairy is also the most common cause of asthma.
So What About Milk Is So Bad?
If the milk today was raw milk, it wouldn't be that bad. But, unless you buy the cow (literally), the milk in the store is pasteurized, the cows are given hormones and antibiotics, and fed corn (something no cow was ever meant to eat). Cows were made to eat grass, yet the cows that are milked for us today are being fed grain and corn, which wreaks havoc and bacterial infections in the cows, which is why they need to give them so many antibiotics.
If you really want to learn more about this and be totally grossed out, watch the movie, "King Corn." You can probably get it at your library. I actually haven't seen it yet but have seen clips of it and it's quite disturbing what corn does to a cow. If we were able to drink milk from a cow who has been allowed to graze a field, eat grass, and not be hooked up to a machine all day to produce massive amounts of milk for the mass population, it might be OK.
Raw milk is often well tolerated, even by people who ordinarily have a problem with dairy. You do literally have to buy the cow if you want raw milk though. It's illegal to sell raw milk, so farmers have sold partial ownership of their cows to people wanting raw milk. They divide the rights to the cow's milk amoung several people, and they then own the cow and can take it's milk legally.
Goat's milk is another form of milk that is often much better tolerated than cow's milk. I believe all of the goats are allowed to graze and eat grass and are not fed corn. Cows in other countries are not fed corn. They are allowed to eat grass. They are fed corn here because in order to produce the amount of milk demanded in the U.S. (partly because of the milk campaigns), they would probably run out of grass. We don't have as much open grassland as we used to in America. They would also not be able to produce as much milk if they didn't give them growth hormones. It's all about money.
Don't take my word for it.
Go to www.mercola.com and type in milk and ear infections. It will bring up a number of articles and at the bottom, Dr. Mercola lists his comments about the article. If you're new to this "all natural" stuff, the best way to start learning, is to sign up for his weekly newsletters. They will send you about 5 articles once a week. They are all excellent and you will learn a lot without being overwhelmed with a ton of information at once.
I know some people will still not be convinced that their kids should stop drinking milk, but at least consider what your kids are eating when they are getting sick. Do they get a lot of ear infections and colds? What are their favorite foods and drinks? If you cut them out for a time, do their symptoms improve?
And what about all the vitamins from milk? Those vitamins aren't found naturally in milk. They are added, just like they are added to rice milk. Rice milk contains the same amount of calcium and other vitamins as regular milk. You can also supplement yourself. If you take out all dairy, you should give calcium, magnesium, and vitamin D supplements, or at a minimum, a good multivitamin which all kids should be taking.
If you want to learn about milk, get the book "Don't Drink Your Milk!" from your library. I haven't read it myself, but I've heard it's good.
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